Chronicles of Rape

Speaking on rape and that he thinks it’s wrong and that it’s never the person’s fault for being raped. Talks about the video he made recently about being drunk and rape.

Original video title: “Rape Is Bad Mmmkay?”

No, you mother fucking shit stain. You have NOT made this very very clear. Your constant insistence on making people take responsibility for their own actions prior to being raped, and making excuses for rapists, specifically says that you think that some rape is justified. Your belittlement of some forms of rape vs other forms of rape (something not being rape rape) proves your ignorance to the subject and how damaging comments like those are. Your desire to speak OVER rape victims and then get angry at them when they tell you that you did it wrong, instead of listening to them and allowing them to speak, shows a complete lack of sensitivity to them, and a complete lack of desire to actually understand and aid people who have been victimized. 

You want to make the rape of other people all about you. Guess what, Greg, YOUR opinion on what has happened to OTHER PEOPLE does not trump THEIR experiences. When rape victims come to you and say, “Listen, Greg, I have been raped, and comments like the ones you made were what shamed me into silence, and stopped me from reporting it,” and then you get mad at them for requesting that you alter your shitty behavior, YOU ARE NOT HELPING RAPE VICTIMS, YOU ARE HURTING THEM! You are taking a selfish approach to rape advocacy, making your feelings the only ones that matter. You just want to be applauded for being anti-rape, without actually being anti-rape.

YOUR OPINIONS ARE IGNORANT.
YOUR OPINIONS ARE STEREOTYPICAL AND BIASED.
YOUR OPINIONS ARE THE TYPES OF OPINIONS THAT JUSTIFY DATE RAPE AND BASICALLY ALL FORMS OF RAPE THAT AREN’T STRANGER IN A DARK ALLEY RAPE.
YOUR OPINIONS ARE PROBLEMATIC AT BEST, DANGEROUS AT WORST.
YOUR OPINIONS ARE NOT. FUCKING. NEEDED.

The only thing that you have made clear in your series of “anti-rape” videos is that you know nothing about rape besides what you see on cop shows. You’ve made it clear that you have no intention to actually educate yourself, and that the only thing you think you need to know about rape is what you’ve concocted in that thick skull of yours. You’ve made it clear that you don’t give a shit if you hurt rape victims further, and perpetuate myths and stereotypes that make their struggles worse. 

Anyone can say they’re against rape. But to actually understand rape, educate yourself and speak on it intelligently, and take a back-mother-fucking-seat while the actual rape victims talk, that’s a lot more difficult. Especially for a narcissist like you who thinks of his own opinions as the ultimate truth. 

The only video I EVER want to see from you about rape again is one that says, “I now realize that I am far too ignorant and inexperienced to speak about rape any further. I’m sorry for any pain I caused to rape victims with my words that further victimized them. I will no longer talk about the subject, but rather redirect you to experts on the topic, such as articles, documentaries, and first hand accounts of how rape and rape culture affect victims. I was wrong to assume that I knew everything about a topic with which I have no education in and no training about how to approach. I acted insensitively and I hope that I have not influenced anyone to commit an act of rape due to my justification of their actions.”

Until you make that video, Greg, I’m going to keep talking about how wrong you are. That’s MY freedom of speech in action. If you don’t like people calling you out on your bullshit, ABSORB THE CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM YOU ARE GIVEN, GROW, LEARN, AND STOP PUTTING YOUR FOOT IN YOUR MOUTH! 

Again, YOUR OPINION IS NOT NEEDED!

And if I seem a bit angry about this, it’s because I am sick and tired of slut shaming, victim blaming, and the perpetuation of  harmful, hateful stereotypes that justify victimization. I can’t be patient with Onision anymore. He’s displayed nothing but willful ignorance when the truth is staring him directly in the face. He is a sick individual and it baffles me that youtube PAYS HIM to spout this hate speech.

I hope the money you make off these videos is worth it to you Greg. I hope you sleep like a baby knowing that you are profiting off other people’s pain. You have such a unique opportunity to help people, but all you do is hurt them. 

(Source: onionchronicles)

Chronicles of Humiliation

Apologizes for publicly humiliating people while re-hashing all the reasons why he publicly humiliated them in the first place. He “apologizes” but also defends himself and says WHY he publicly humiliated these people. States once again that he’ll keep his personal info to himself.

Then talks about his ex-girlfriends/ ex-wife and says the only reason he spoke publicly about them is because they did it first and because his ex-wife “stole” from him.

Also mentions Chris Crocker drama.

Original video title: “About Public Humiliation (The Online Drama)”

GOOD LORD! I agree with him not needing to rehash everything he said. It’s like, he still can’t let this shit go. He’s saying he is letting it go, but you can tell he still stands by everything he said and feels justified. He’s constantly blaming the other person for provoking him when oftentimes he was completely unprovoked. Every single incident comes with a disclaimer “I did this because they did this and they were wrong for it.” No, they weren’t wrong. None of the things these people did were wrong. Sorry pal, you are not morally superior to any of these people and you had no reason to attack them, publicly or privately.

But even if his intentions at this moment are to change I do not accept “I’m sorry” when it comes to repeat offenders. Onision is all talk. He apologizes to save face and then does the same shit a day, a week, a month later. It takes way more than a sorry for me to forgive someone like him who continues to prove that he has learned nothing from his mistakes. He needs to act upon his claim to be growing and learning and actually show us growing and learning. Apologizing is the first step, but he always seems to never be able to climb up to the second, third, and forth. He instead climbs back down and dicks around for months saying hateful, hurtful things and until he’s received enough backlash to take step one again.

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: He reminds me of an abusive partner and the textbook cycle of abuse.

(Source: , via onionchronicles)

Onision fangirls are ridiculous.

(mirrored)

Seriously, shaming “sluts” for their “dangerous” behavior is the most counterproductive thing you can do. When someone feels ashamed for doing something that comes naturally to them, they are more prone to hiding it. They are afraid to talk to their parents or teachers for guidance. They’re afraid to go get tested for STDs, or if they do, they’re not going to give accurate information about their number or their practices. They’re not going to go pick up condoms because they won’t want the person at the counter judging them. If having an STD makes someone feel “dirty,” they’re not going to disclose that information to the people who need to know. They’re not going to report being sexually assaulted because they won’t want people knowing their sexual history. Removing the stigma of sex is the first step in creating a safer society with a healthy attitude. The danger and excitement of doing something “immoral” is part of the allure in and of itself. 

Take away that shame and you have kids talking to their parents and being encouraged to take care of themselves and avoid unhealthy relationships. You have people talking to their partners about what they want and expect out of their sexual relationship and not being afraid to request they use condoms. You have people saying, yes, I have an STD, it happens even when you use protection, have sex with just one person, or are in a committed relationship, you have the option of deciding if you still want to sleep with me.  You have people who don’t need to get drunk in order to have the guts to have sex, therefore they’re not making mistakes or getting so drunk that someone they didn’t want to be involved with takes advantage of them. You have healthier sexual encounters within committed relationships because you don’t feel like what you’re doing is wrong. The list goes on.

People like Onision are sex negative. They view sex as dirty and shameful. They view sex as something a man does to a woman, not something that two people share. They limit the way that they can interact with people based on old fashioned concepts of morality derived from religious oppression. They have no foresight or psychological/sociological understanding of what the result of this type of attitude has on the general public. They want control over other people, and the only way to flex that control is through judgment and humiliation. Be like I want you to be, do not be the person that you are.

Why do people who have many sex partners look back and say “It wasn’t worth it?” Because society has trained them to feel that shame. Society is telling them that they’re dirty, immoral, flawed. So no, ten years down the line when your partner is passing judgment on you for your former exploits, of course it doesn’t feel worth it. But if society’s opinions changed on the matter overall, you wouldn’t have that problem. You would look at it like, “I had fun while I was young and single, now I’m older and married and I have gotten that urge out of my system. I can settle down and share with my partner all the tricks that I’ve learned and be happy with them.” 

Anyways, long story short, Onision is a simple little man with a simple little brain. If he did more than google himself all day he might understand more than just “Sluts is bad duhh.”

silent-sighs-and-long-goodbyes:

Onision liked my post!(: ME GUSTA.<3

Dude, he likes/reblogs everything positive that is posted about him. He scours his tag for people talking about him and reblogs them. Fangirls, this is not him singling you out or paying attention to you. How do you not see that he is only interested in himself? He would never reblog your opinion or anything you posted that didn’t directly link to his grasping at the concept of fame. The fact that you fangirls get your panties all wet over it is really sad tbqh. 

After saying he has never been raped. 

It’s not up on onionchronicles yet, so if you’re gonna watch it, please take a moment to flag it while you’re there

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=5UG4_5zstzU#!

Ok, it’s up on onionchronicles now, you can watch it without paying him to explain to you how it felt to be raped now.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=clsNATeHVSM&feature=youtu.be

Uhh, onion, why do you constantly feel it’s necessary to bring other people down in order to bring yourself up?

“At the first vidcon he cussed like crazy. How many people protested him talking at the next event? At the next event he joked about pedophilia repeatedly. How many people protested the 2012 event coming up? Porbably not many people. Shane Dawson says a lot of things that I would assume most parents don’t want their kids to hear, things that I would never say onstage. I rarely swear in person, i really do. I rarely say anything that’s extremely offensive in person. And yet, I’m being censored, and somebody who’s much more offensive than I am in person isn’t.” - Onision 

Was it really necessary to throw Shane’s behavior around in defense of your own? You do realize that this could compromise Shane’s position at Vidcon, not just your own. right? You see, there are three outcomes if Vidcon takes notice of your complaint:

1. No effect what-so-ever, onion stays off, Dawson stays on.
2. Vidcon gets all embarrassed about their supposed hypocrisy and puts onion back on.
3. In a blaze of glory, onion takes Dawson down with him by getting him removed as well. 

I thought you and Shane were supposed to be friends? Or you were at least cool with each other. It doesn’t seem too friendly to have his name in your mouth like this, risking his spot at the convention in a pathetic attempt to save your own.

Though it doesn’t surprise me, seeing as how you threw all your exes under the bus in very public, very personal attacks, in an attempt to elevate people’s view of you in comparison to them, and to garner attention and sympathy. If you can do that to people who you claimed to have loved, you must have no problem with doing it to someone you just like, or associate with.  

His fans are already starting to latch on and spread the Dawson defense too… not surprising though since they tend to mimic many of his behaviors. 

from the Vidcon facebook

If I was Shane Dawson, I’d be telling you to go fuck yourself.

Let Shane and his fans know what Onision is up to.

Shane’s Twitter:
@shanedawson

Fan Twitters:
@TeamSDawson 
@TeamShaneDawson 
@DawsonFever

And let Vidcon know how you feel about this selfish behavior.

@VidCon
@hankgreen
@realjohngreen
http://www.facebook.com/VidCon
http://www.facebook.com/JohnGreenfans
http://www.facebook.com/Hankimon

It’s been over a week since youtube partner Onision made an incredibly personal attack on his ex girlfriend public for his tens of thousands of youtube followers and fans to see. He then created a series of videos (mirrored) which only exacerbated the situation. In doing so, he also deeply offended thousands of people with his statement,

“And then she goes to insinuate that when we did make love that I was forcing her into it, that I was pressuring her into it and she didn’t really want to. That’s funny coming from someone who has slept with over 20 people.”  - A Horrible Rebound (mirrored)

This statement cut deep for many viewers who have been the victim of rape, and not been believed because they’d had too many past sexual partners. One woman made a very brave and honest video in response, saying,

“You practically said that if you’ve been with over 20 people you can’t get raped. Greg, your personality reminds me of my rapist… You know what my rapist told me? After he raped me, he told me nobody would believe that he raped me because I’d been with over 20 people. You basically said the same thing my rapist said which is why I compare you to my rapist. You, in my eyes, are just as bad, if not worse than him. You’re showing kids that it’s impossible for a ‘slut’ to be raped. You know what Greg? I’m a ‘slut,’ and I got raped.” - Onision is Like My Rapist

She was just one of dozens of videos which expressed disgust at his statements. A petition, which had been created back in December after his last scandal where he and his now ex-girlfriend Shiloh scammed everyone into believing that she had sepsis, suddenly found it’s signature count shooting up over a thousand more than it had previously. People were outraged, and rightfully so. Yet youtube and adsense, the companies which sponsor him, haven’t batted an eyelash. They don’t seem to be responding to our protest, causing Onision to feel more invincible by the day.

This is unacceptable. It is more important now than ever before to take a stand against him and not stop until his sponsorship is revoked. He should be ashamed of his actions and he should not be profiting off of manipulating minors into following his dangerous and despicable opinions. Do not underestimate his power, this is not some rogue troll with ten followers that is easily ignored. You saw the figures in his facebook statement. He has influence over too many people, people who treat his opinions like gospel, to let his actions go unchecked.

DO NOT BE PASSIVE! DO NOT WAIT FOR SOMEONE ELSE TO DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT!

This will not be rectified by a few people complaining. We all need to voice our opinions so that youtube and adsense cannot turn a blind eye to this. Please take a few minutes of your time to do the following:

-Sign the Petition to get his sponsorship revoked
-Report his accounts to Adsense (report both accounts OnisionSpeaks and Onision)
-Flag his offensive videos, (Here is a step by step on how to flag them) the category for each is listed in their descriptions (this is a playlist of the videos on his accounts for you to flag. Only click on these videos to flag them, if you just want to watch his videos, please use the mirrored account OnionChronicles so that you don’t give him ad revenue. Do not flag the videos on OnionChronicles, for they are to document and prove his behavior)
-Report his facebook pages, Onision and OnisionSpeaks for Other/Abusive Content > Contains Hate Speech
-Write to Vidcon, an upcoming convention which he is speaking at, and request that they revoke his invitation. We wrote and they listened! As of January 20th, he has been removed from the speakers list!!

-Upload your own reactions to his videos on youtube.
-Reblog (don’t just like, reblogging spreads the word) and repost this to other social networking sites, along with other posts from OnionChronicles, OnisionDrama, and HoldTheOnion, that show the horrible things that he’s done.
-Send this post, or your own take on the subject, along with the playlist of his offending videos (mirrored) to popular websites which discuss internet issues and support women’s rights. (Ex: Jezebel - Email, Gawker - Email, Bitchmedia - Contact, Feminist.com - Email, The Good Men Project - Email)
-Tweet about it (we need a good hashtag, send me ideas!)
-Send me a video anywhere from 10-60 seconds, saying that you want Onision’s partnership revoked (any brief comment why can be included, but keep it brief, I will edit them together for a youtube video. Please send these asap)

Please do at least one of these things. But the more you do, the better. Our voices will be heard!

EDIT Jan 20, 2012: We have made some progress. Vidcon listened, and removed him from the list of speakers and he is super pissed. Good job guys. I’d like to thank everyone who took the time to e-mail them. This is just more motivation to continue fighting the good fight. Let’s give youtube a wakeup call! Keep flagging! Keep writing to adsense! We can do it!



If you have difficulty expressing your opinions on the subject, here is the letter I sent to Adsense. Feel free to use this as a form letter or to help you come up with your own ideas if you would like to:

Sorry it’s a text video because I had borrowed a computer with a webcam to make the last video.