Chronicles of Rape

Speaking on rape and that he thinks it’s wrong and that it’s never the person’s fault for being raped. Talks about the video he made recently about being drunk and rape.

Original video title: “Rape Is Bad Mmmkay?”

No, you mother fucking shit stain. You have NOT made this very very clear. Your constant insistence on making people take responsibility for their own actions prior to being raped, and making excuses for rapists, specifically says that you think that some rape is justified. Your belittlement of some forms of rape vs other forms of rape (something not being rape rape) proves your ignorance to the subject and how damaging comments like those are. Your desire to speak OVER rape victims and then get angry at them when they tell you that you did it wrong, instead of listening to them and allowing them to speak, shows a complete lack of sensitivity to them, and a complete lack of desire to actually understand and aid people who have been victimized. 

You want to make the rape of other people all about you. Guess what, Greg, YOUR opinion on what has happened to OTHER PEOPLE does not trump THEIR experiences. When rape victims come to you and say, “Listen, Greg, I have been raped, and comments like the ones you made were what shamed me into silence, and stopped me from reporting it,” and then you get mad at them for requesting that you alter your shitty behavior, YOU ARE NOT HELPING RAPE VICTIMS, YOU ARE HURTING THEM! You are taking a selfish approach to rape advocacy, making your feelings the only ones that matter. You just want to be applauded for being anti-rape, without actually being anti-rape.

YOUR OPINIONS ARE IGNORANT.
YOUR OPINIONS ARE STEREOTYPICAL AND BIASED.
YOUR OPINIONS ARE THE TYPES OF OPINIONS THAT JUSTIFY DATE RAPE AND BASICALLY ALL FORMS OF RAPE THAT AREN’T STRANGER IN A DARK ALLEY RAPE.
YOUR OPINIONS ARE PROBLEMATIC AT BEST, DANGEROUS AT WORST.
YOUR OPINIONS ARE NOT. FUCKING. NEEDED.

The only thing that you have made clear in your series of “anti-rape” videos is that you know nothing about rape besides what you see on cop shows. You’ve made it clear that you have no intention to actually educate yourself, and that the only thing you think you need to know about rape is what you’ve concocted in that thick skull of yours. You’ve made it clear that you don’t give a shit if you hurt rape victims further, and perpetuate myths and stereotypes that make their struggles worse. 

Anyone can say they’re against rape. But to actually understand rape, educate yourself and speak on it intelligently, and take a back-mother-fucking-seat while the actual rape victims talk, that’s a lot more difficult. Especially for a narcissist like you who thinks of his own opinions as the ultimate truth. 

The only video I EVER want to see from you about rape again is one that says, “I now realize that I am far too ignorant and inexperienced to speak about rape any further. I’m sorry for any pain I caused to rape victims with my words that further victimized them. I will no longer talk about the subject, but rather redirect you to experts on the topic, such as articles, documentaries, and first hand accounts of how rape and rape culture affect victims. I was wrong to assume that I knew everything about a topic with which I have no education in and no training about how to approach. I acted insensitively and I hope that I have not influenced anyone to commit an act of rape due to my justification of their actions.”

Until you make that video, Greg, I’m going to keep talking about how wrong you are. That’s MY freedom of speech in action. If you don’t like people calling you out on your bullshit, ABSORB THE CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM YOU ARE GIVEN, GROW, LEARN, AND STOP PUTTING YOUR FOOT IN YOUR MOUTH! 

Again, YOUR OPINION IS NOT NEEDED!

And if I seem a bit angry about this, it’s because I am sick and tired of slut shaming, victim blaming, and the perpetuation of  harmful, hateful stereotypes that justify victimization. I can’t be patient with Onision anymore. He’s displayed nothing but willful ignorance when the truth is staring him directly in the face. He is a sick individual and it baffles me that youtube PAYS HIM to spout this hate speech.

I hope the money you make off these videos is worth it to you Greg. I hope you sleep like a baby knowing that you are profiting off other people’s pain. You have such a unique opportunity to help people, but all you do is hurt them. 

(Source: onionchronicles)

I watched a video recently called The War on Women, in which an MRA illustrates the point that using the term “war” in regards to recent attempts by various government officials to revoke the rights that women currently hold is an exaggeration, and an insult to all the men who have fought, died, and been drafted in wars. While I shouldn’t have to mention that, as it stands currently women can and do fight and die in wars (and have a high likelihood of being raped by their fellow soldiers while enlisted), and that nobody is being drafted, apparently those women don’t count. Additionally, this video chooses to ignore the innocent bystanders, many of which happen to be women, as well as the female nurses who have always been in harms way while serving their country.

Regardless, I found it interesting that a group that so frequently equates feminists with Nazis chose this word choice to start getting touchy. Are feminists placing men into concentration camps and gas chambers, shooting them at gun ranges, and trying to eliminate men from the world? I can say with full confidence that they are not, and, even the most radical feminists with the most hateful viewpoints on men, are not operating in a manner that even comes close to the actions of the Nazis. Yet the term feminazi lives on, and is used regularly as a part of the MRA’s vocabulary. So while using the word “war” minimizes the sacrifice and suffering of the men, specifically, who have served in the military, the casual use of the word Nazi as a dig at the women who dare stand up for themselves is completely appropriate, to the point in coming up with lists to demonstrate the similarities in extremist opinions, which could absolutely be applied to the extremists within their own movement. No hypocrisy there folks!

Finally, I link you to a clip on the Daily Show that happened to be 100% appropriate considering my recently having come across this video. At least somebody gets it, and can illustrate just how absurd this video is in a way that I can also laugh at. I don’t see MRA’s making videos protesting the use of “The War On Christmas,” do I?

“’..and happily have sex with my husband whenever HE wants to.’

Yeah. This line got me too. It’s amazing that most women feel this way. They treat sex as though they are the only ones giving something in the exchange.

As if they get no sexual pleasure from the experience.

My uncle once told me a joke. He said, “Who enjoys sex the most, women or men?”

Of coarse being young and programmed, I said, “Men.”

My uncle laughed and said, “Take your finger and put it in your ear and wiggle it around. Which feels better, your finger or your ear?”

That was my first red pill.”

How the hell can they compare a finger to a dick and an ear to a vagina? There are no physical sensations in the finger, which is completely different than a dick. And, for many women, they can’t come from vaginal penetration alone, but clitoral stimulation…. cue dozens of men calling this an amazing comparison… WHAT? I’m not pretending that the myth that women don’t enjoy sex isn’t a myth, because for many it completely is a myth. But to use this comparison as a reason why women somehow get more out of it and to use it as an example of male oppression… WHAT? And then we have men jealous of women who have multiple orgasms (as if men don’t have to option of having sex more than once in a night) as a natural form of oppression. Not all women can have orgasms, especially not multiple orgasms. A much larger percentage of men can have orgasms regularly. But women have the upper hand in sex? What is this nonsense?

But how can I really expect thought provoking commentary in the section of an article that is so clearly inane to begin with?

(Source: avoiceformen.com)

Ok, my response to that video I have been angry about has finally loaded. It’s long as hell. But hopefully I did the subject some justice.

There’s just all sorts of crazed women running around shoving trash condoms up their cooches. It’s a goddamn epidemic!!!

I wish I was this smart at 13

After saying he has never been raped. 

It’s not up on onionchronicles yet, so if you’re gonna watch it, please take a moment to flag it while you’re there

http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_embedded&v=5UG4_5zstzU#!

Ok, it’s up on onionchronicles now, you can watch it without paying him to explain to you how it felt to be raped now.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=clsNATeHVSM&feature=youtu.be

It’s been over a week since youtube partner Onision made an incredibly personal attack on his ex girlfriend public for his tens of thousands of youtube followers and fans to see. He then created a series of videos (mirrored) which only exacerbated the situation. In doing so, he also deeply offended thousands of people with his statement,

(via dietraumer)

First, thanks for reblogging that last post. It’s up to 101 notes so far which is great. Hopefully we can get even more as the day goes on. Unfortunately this protest coincides with the protest on SOPA which means a lot of tumblrs are blacked out today, but we’re spreading the word around other places too, so we can keep it going. I’ll probably repost the original post after the blackouts are over for anyone who may have missed it.

Anyways, there have been some questions about flagging. People are kind of confused. Here is a step by step guide on flagging his videos.

1. Click on the playlist I made of the offending videos http://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLA08C8BE8B518F9BF

2. Open a video in a new tab, noting what to file it under in the description next to the video:

3. Click the flag button underneath the video:

4. Select a reason: 

5. If you clicked promotes Hatred or Violence Select “sex” and then type how what he said was wrong in the description box, if you clicked bullying, skip to step 6:

6. Click Submit Video for Review:

7. Repeat steps 2-6 for each video.

Hopefully that cleared up some confusion. Remember, I’ve made suggestions next to each video of how I submitted them myself. Also, only flag the videos on his own channels. Onionchronicles is a channel where they mirrored the videos. No ad revenue is being made off that channel, it’s just to document his behavior. 

Thanks for all your help and effort! Together we can make a statement that this behavior is NOT ok. 

Sorry it’s a text video because I had borrowed a computer with a webcam to make the last video.