Chronicles of Rape

Speaking on rape and that he thinks it’s wrong and that it’s never the person’s fault for being raped. Talks about the video he made recently about being drunk and rape.

Original video title: “Rape Is Bad Mmmkay?”

No, you mother fucking shit stain. You have NOT made this very very clear. Your constant insistence on making people take responsibility for their own actions prior to being raped, and making excuses for rapists, specifically says that you think that some rape is justified. Your belittlement of some forms of rape vs other forms of rape (something not being rape rape) proves your ignorance to the subject and how damaging comments like those are. Your desire to speak OVER rape victims and then get angry at them when they tell you that you did it wrong, instead of listening to them and allowing them to speak, shows a complete lack of sensitivity to them, and a complete lack of desire to actually understand and aid people who have been victimized. 

You want to make the rape of other people all about you. Guess what, Greg, YOUR opinion on what has happened to OTHER PEOPLE does not trump THEIR experiences. When rape victims come to you and say, “Listen, Greg, I have been raped, and comments like the ones you made were what shamed me into silence, and stopped me from reporting it,” and then you get mad at them for requesting that you alter your shitty behavior, YOU ARE NOT HELPING RAPE VICTIMS, YOU ARE HURTING THEM! You are taking a selfish approach to rape advocacy, making your feelings the only ones that matter. You just want to be applauded for being anti-rape, without actually being anti-rape.

YOUR OPINIONS ARE IGNORANT.
YOUR OPINIONS ARE STEREOTYPICAL AND BIASED.
YOUR OPINIONS ARE THE TYPES OF OPINIONS THAT JUSTIFY DATE RAPE AND BASICALLY ALL FORMS OF RAPE THAT AREN’T STRANGER IN A DARK ALLEY RAPE.
YOUR OPINIONS ARE PROBLEMATIC AT BEST, DANGEROUS AT WORST.
YOUR OPINIONS ARE NOT. FUCKING. NEEDED.

The only thing that you have made clear in your series of “anti-rape” videos is that you know nothing about rape besides what you see on cop shows. You’ve made it clear that you have no intention to actually educate yourself, and that the only thing you think you need to know about rape is what you’ve concocted in that thick skull of yours. You’ve made it clear that you don’t give a shit if you hurt rape victims further, and perpetuate myths and stereotypes that make their struggles worse. 

Anyone can say they’re against rape. But to actually understand rape, educate yourself and speak on it intelligently, and take a back-mother-fucking-seat while the actual rape victims talk, that’s a lot more difficult. Especially for a narcissist like you who thinks of his own opinions as the ultimate truth. 

The only video I EVER want to see from you about rape again is one that says, “I now realize that I am far too ignorant and inexperienced to speak about rape any further. I’m sorry for any pain I caused to rape victims with my words that further victimized them. I will no longer talk about the subject, but rather redirect you to experts on the topic, such as articles, documentaries, and first hand accounts of how rape and rape culture affect victims. I was wrong to assume that I knew everything about a topic with which I have no education in and no training about how to approach. I acted insensitively and I hope that I have not influenced anyone to commit an act of rape due to my justification of their actions.”

Until you make that video, Greg, I’m going to keep talking about how wrong you are. That’s MY freedom of speech in action. If you don’t like people calling you out on your bullshit, ABSORB THE CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM YOU ARE GIVEN, GROW, LEARN, AND STOP PUTTING YOUR FOOT IN YOUR MOUTH! 

Again, YOUR OPINION IS NOT NEEDED!

And if I seem a bit angry about this, it’s because I am sick and tired of slut shaming, victim blaming, and the perpetuation of  harmful, hateful stereotypes that justify victimization. I can’t be patient with Onision anymore. He’s displayed nothing but willful ignorance when the truth is staring him directly in the face. He is a sick individual and it baffles me that youtube PAYS HIM to spout this hate speech.

I hope the money you make off these videos is worth it to you Greg. I hope you sleep like a baby knowing that you are profiting off other people’s pain. You have such a unique opportunity to help people, but all you do is hurt them. 

(Source: onionchronicles)

Baddest bitch on youtube.

I made a video about this already, but it keeps happening. Why is this happening? Y U SO STUPID ONISION FANS?

They think he knows who they are! They really think he is like, thinking about them right now. They probably use this to feed their delusions about him seeing their post about how obsessed they are with him and being like, “I MUST HAVE HER!” and flying them out to his house to use them as his next victim girlfriend. Do you dipshits write fan fiction because I want to read that shit. I need a good laugh.

HE’S NOT EVEN FUNNY, FAMOUS, ATTRACTIVE, INTELLIGENT, A GOOD BOYFRIEND, CARING, THOUGHTFUL, OR ANY OF THE GOOD QUALITIES WOMEN LOOK FOR IN A MAN!

He knows that you silly children piss yourself every time he pays you any attention, but paying attention to anything other than himself is not the type of thing he’s interested in, so he pays attention to the stuff you post about him that is flattering… AND YOU EAT IT UP! If he was really interested in you he would be following you and reblogging the stuff you say that has nothing to do with him (if you start doing this tomorrow, I’m onto you, I know you’re reading this). Instead he’s just tracking his tag and reblogging every kind word or flattering photo. And you think that act is somehow about you?

WAKE UP!

Chronicles of Humiliation

Apologizes for publicly humiliating people while re-hashing all the reasons why he publicly humiliated them in the first place. He “apologizes” but also defends himself and says WHY he publicly humiliated these people. States once again that he’ll keep his personal info to himself.

Then talks about his ex-girlfriends/ ex-wife and says the only reason he spoke publicly about them is because they did it first and because his ex-wife “stole” from him.

Also mentions Chris Crocker drama.

Original video title: “About Public Humiliation (The Online Drama)”

GOOD LORD! I agree with him not needing to rehash everything he said. It’s like, he still can’t let this shit go. He’s saying he is letting it go, but you can tell he still stands by everything he said and feels justified. He’s constantly blaming the other person for provoking him when oftentimes he was completely unprovoked. Every single incident comes with a disclaimer “I did this because they did this and they were wrong for it.” No, they weren’t wrong. None of the things these people did were wrong. Sorry pal, you are not morally superior to any of these people and you had no reason to attack them, publicly or privately.

But even if his intentions at this moment are to change I do not accept “I’m sorry” when it comes to repeat offenders. Onision is all talk. He apologizes to save face and then does the same shit a day, a week, a month later. It takes way more than a sorry for me to forgive someone like him who continues to prove that he has learned nothing from his mistakes. He needs to act upon his claim to be growing and learning and actually show us growing and learning. Apologizing is the first step, but he always seems to never be able to climb up to the second, third, and forth. He instead climbs back down and dicks around for months saying hateful, hurtful things and until he’s received enough backlash to take step one again.

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again: He reminds me of an abusive partner and the textbook cycle of abuse.

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Good lord, this dude in my comments section is batshit. But this is a video version of a post I made before about slut shaming.

Onision fangirls are ridiculous.

(mirrored)

Seriously, shaming “sluts” for their “dangerous” behavior is the most counterproductive thing you can do. When someone feels ashamed for doing something that comes naturally to them, they are more prone to hiding it. They are afraid to talk to their parents or teachers for guidance. They’re afraid to go get tested for STDs, or if they do, they’re not going to give accurate information about their number or their practices. They’re not going to go pick up condoms because they won’t want the person at the counter judging them. If having an STD makes someone feel “dirty,” they’re not going to disclose that information to the people who need to know. They’re not going to report being sexually assaulted because they won’t want people knowing their sexual history. Removing the stigma of sex is the first step in creating a safer society with a healthy attitude. The danger and excitement of doing something “immoral” is part of the allure in and of itself. 

Take away that shame and you have kids talking to their parents and being encouraged to take care of themselves and avoid unhealthy relationships. You have people talking to their partners about what they want and expect out of their sexual relationship and not being afraid to request they use condoms. You have people saying, yes, I have an STD, it happens even when you use protection, have sex with just one person, or are in a committed relationship, you have the option of deciding if you still want to sleep with me.  You have people who don’t need to get drunk in order to have the guts to have sex, therefore they’re not making mistakes or getting so drunk that someone they didn’t want to be involved with takes advantage of them. You have healthier sexual encounters within committed relationships because you don’t feel like what you’re doing is wrong. The list goes on.

People like Onision are sex negative. They view sex as dirty and shameful. They view sex as something a man does to a woman, not something that two people share. They limit the way that they can interact with people based on old fashioned concepts of morality derived from religious oppression. They have no foresight or psychological/sociological understanding of what the result of this type of attitude has on the general public. They want control over other people, and the only way to flex that control is through judgment and humiliation. Be like I want you to be, do not be the person that you are.

Why do people who have many sex partners look back and say “It wasn’t worth it?” Because society has trained them to feel that shame. Society is telling them that they’re dirty, immoral, flawed. So no, ten years down the line when your partner is passing judgment on you for your former exploits, of course it doesn’t feel worth it. But if society’s opinions changed on the matter overall, you wouldn’t have that problem. You would look at it like, “I had fun while I was young and single, now I’m older and married and I have gotten that urge out of my system. I can settle down and share with my partner all the tricks that I’ve learned and be happy with them.” 

Anyways, long story short, Onision is a simple little man with a simple little brain. If he did more than google himself all day he might understand more than just “Sluts is bad duhh.”

silent-sighs-and-long-goodbyes:

Onision liked my post!(: ME GUSTA.<3

Dude, he likes/reblogs everything positive that is posted about him. He scours his tag for people talking about him and reblogs them. Fangirls, this is not him singling you out or paying attention to you. How do you not see that he is only interested in himself? He would never reblog your opinion or anything you posted that didn’t directly link to his grasping at the concept of fame. The fact that you fangirls get your panties all wet over it is really sad tbqh. 

Seriously, his tumblr is gross too. Just a bunch of reblogged pictures of himself. Sup narcissism? Seriously, guy, get your head out of your own ass and go experience the world. There is more to life than what goes on in your own mind. Stare at something besides your own face for once.

I imagine he jerks off to photos of himself if I’m being totally honest with you. He doesn’t consider his own masturbating cheating because he’s in the relationship.

b-e-a-u-t-y-k-i-l-l-e-r:

Please reblog. You may save someone’s life. 

Sorry girl, but people suffering from true depression are not going to suddenly be cured because they watched this video. People who suffer from true depression, not just their boyfriend breaking up with them, do not have the ability to just pull themselves out of it and look on the bright side. Their brain is playing tricks on them to the extent that it’s completely contradicting their human nature to survive and convincing them that they want to kill themselves. This isn’t curable, it’s sometimes not even treatable. It is not something that deserves shame. Don’t treat suicidal people as selfish, do not act like they can control these feelings. If they could, they would not choose to be depressed. Who would want to feel the urge to commit suicide on a regular basis? It’s just not logical to think that’s a choice.So it’s not something that a video like this is going to change.

Videos like this just add more shame to what is already a misunderstood illness. See, depression is an ILLNESS. Telling someone to get over their depression is like telling someone to get over their cancer. And expecting someone to continue living because you want them to is selfish. Please, go through excruciating mental and physical agony forever so that I have someone to gossip about boys with. Right, they’re the selfish ones.

That’s not to say that all depressed people should commit suicide. If you can treat it and function normally with medication and therapy, you are one of the lucky ones and that’s great for you. I hope you take advantage of that and live life to the fullest. But if someone commits suicide, it was not just some simple, thoughtless action. Believe me, they agonized over that decision until their pain just got so overwhelming that they couldn’t find another option.

Instead of directing them to some stupid video by an ignorant asshole, maybe take some time and actually listen to these people, not judge. Be a shoulder for them to cry on and a sounding board to get out all of these horrible thoughts that are leading them to this conclusion. Maybe then you’ll understand how selfish you’re being by expecting them to keep living because it benefits you.

(Source: i-n-n-o-c-e-n-t-b-l-u-e)