myinsanityismyrefuge:

And for all you who disagree, seriously think about it. When was the last time you saw a “nice guy” date the prettiest girl in school? Or actually lasted in a relationship? 

Every girl I’ve ever met says “I’m different, I love nice guys!” But they aren’t different. How can you legitimately say that, when ever single guy you’ve dated has been a complete asshole to you and everybody around you?

There is one guy at my school who was suspended for a total of three months last year on the charge of sexual harassment. He was found guilty and served out his punishment.  Somehow he managed to stay in our grade. And this year, every single girl absolutely adores him because he’s “such a good person.”  No, sorry to tell this to you he’s an asshole, to everyone. He has a different girlfriend every week and is spiteful and vindictive to the extreme.  

But he is such a good person, according to every girl who talks about him.

What I don’t get is how so many people can be so blind to it all, yet still complain when guys are complete jerks to them? “Oh, I wish I could find a good boyfriend for once.”  Really? And whose fault is that, that you can’t?

Ok, now riddle me this, why is it that the “nice guy” is always complaining about not getting the prettiest girl in school? Why is it that the “nice guy” is never complaining about getting the nice girl, instead? Why is it that the “nice guy” is allowed to have superficial standards such as wanting the prettiest girl in school rather than the nicest, while the girl is the stupid bitch for wanting the hot guy, or the rich guy, or the dangerous guy? 

You know how many nice girls are out there pining for the “nice guy” who is too busy staring at the superficial cheerleader to notice what’s right in front of him? You “nice guys” think you’re the only ones who are victims of superficiality in dating, when you do the exact same things.

Instead of being single and mad at all women, consider dating WITHIN YOUR LEAGUE! I know that doesn’t sound as awesome as dating a super model, but it’s the only realistic way that you’re going to have a girlfriend unless you have some other really awesome talent such as being a great songwriter or something. I see plenty of people who are not particularly attractive or special dating each other because they’re willing to be realistic about what they are and what they deserve.

If you have nothing to offer a woman besides being nice, why should that woman, who has looks, brains, talent, etc, want you? Why should she be busting her ass to look gorgeous and stay fit, while you sit on the couch eating doritos and playing video games? Why shouldn’t she have the right to be selective about her potential mates based on the same standards she holds herself to?

Seriously, “nice guys,” quit whining and either work on yourselves so that you are attractive to the opposite sex, or stfd and accept that girl who is on the same level as you.

And don’t even get me started on the whole “entitled to sex” bullshit that “nice guys” like to complain about. Or how they pretend to be your friend while all they really want from you is sex. My brain might explode.  

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