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Chronicles of Nice Guys

Speaking on nice guys and why women seem to always want date the jerks. Pretty much tells the nice guys out there to be controlling in a relationship.

“Be willing to put other people in their place.”
UHM….

Original Video Title: “Nice Guys Can Win”

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Jesus H. Christ, Onision is at his creepiest in this video. In this video Onision displays a serious case of the “Nice Guy Syndrome”, looking like the scummiest perp out of a SVU episode. God DAMN, where is Benson and Stabler when you need them?!

In this chapter of How to be a Predator 101, Onision goes to explain to his male (and again, let me reiterate this, minor- children-under the age of 18) viewers how the “nice guy” can win. Because that’s how a relationship works, right? It’s a game with clear winners and losers and in his game coercion, intimidation, domination, and manipulation are the rules. His advice to, “all you good guys watching this” was,

“…whether you’re in the bedroom or out of the bedroom, it doesn’t really necessarily matter which. The important thing is that you’re consistent. That you’re willing to take control. You’re willing to be decisive. You’re willing to be confident, when it’s appropriate.”

And since he’s such a nice guy he dedicated the last ten seconds of the video to also say to “…listen when she talks to you” though! Right after he negates that by stating that if you’re not the “alpha male” in the relationship then your partner will not respect you.

Wow, okay. I need a minute to breathe. All I see in this video is Onision rationalizing his predatory behavior against women. No healthy relationship has any standards of controlling one’s partner, whatsoever-especially in the bedroom. I’ll give him credit where credit is due, it’s important to be vocal with your partner about your decisions. Although he went and fucked it up because being decisive is reserved for both parties in the relationship. You are responsible for making decisions for yourself and no one else. I hope whoever you’re involved with in a romantic or psychical sense is capable enough to make their own decisions because that is their job, and theirs alone- NOT YOURS. It’s as a couple that you two come together and find a compromise if your choices are different.

HE HAS GOT TO BE TROLLING NOW!

He is throwing out every. single. dickbag cliche. EVERY SINGLE ONE! Did he read a few feminist blogs and go, “Oh, if I talk about this it’ll REALLY piss them off! 

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